Settling abroad and earning in dollars is still the biggest dream for millions of Indians. But what happens when that dream comes true, your pockets are full of money, yet your heart feels empty? A poignant video by an Indian chef named Kartik Chauhan (@kartikinspire) on Instagram exposes this bitter truth. It shows that while you may find success abroad, you lose the company of your loved ones.
He owns a luxurious home, drives a Mustang, and lives in a prime neighbourhood. Yet, this Diwali, while homes across India glow with lights and celebrations, Kartik finds himself surrounded by silence, far from the warmth and laughter of loved ones. In India, our lives thrive among family and neighbours. Unannounced visits from relatives, neighbours checking on you, and the noise of festivals make our lives vibrant. In contrast, in countries like the US, even socialising has to be scheduled. Real happiness can only be found with parents, a partner and children, which you cannot buy with money. This is the story of millions of migrants who have climbed the ladder of success but still yearn for their loved ones in a corner of their hearts. Material comforts can never replace the warmth of relationships. For Indians living abroad, connecting with a community or inviting friends over during festivals may reduce this loneliness a little, but nothing can replace home. The video sparked a debate online, with users sharing mixed reactions. Others offered a more nuanced perspective. A commenter noted that while happiness comes from being with family, financial stability is also essential for building a comfortable life together. Many agreed that life is ultimately about finding the right balance between earning a living and staying connected to family.
Another user remarked that being ignored at home due to a lack of money can feel worse than the loneliness experienced away from loved ones.
In the video, Kartik says he has been living in the US for the past four years. Kartik says, “Money only gives you happiness as long as you are spending it. Some viewers said the man had come to a powerful realisation only after earning money, while others argued that if he missed his family, nothing was stopping him from returning home.
